This recording comes from a LIVE MAMFT Conference of Bill Doherty teaching therapists about Couples Sensitive Individual Therapy. The idea is if one of your partners wishes to continue to work with you on their marriage with the reluctant spouse not participating, you will want to ensure you’re offering this type of therapy. It is a frame and lens and skill to not let our individual clients simply be victims of their spouse, but to honor their role and challenge them to grow their own selfhood and skills without bashing their spouse.
The first is the presentation in full. Then we broke it apart into three pieces for easier chunks to listen to.